男女羞羞视频在线观看,国产精品黄色免费,麻豆91在线视频,美女被羞羞免费软件下载,国产的一级片,亚洲熟色妇,天天操夜夜摸,一区二区三区在线电影

Granny QQ dishes the advice online

Updated: 2011-09-13 07:57

By Liu Xiangrui (China Daily)

  Comments() Print Mail Large Medium  Small 分享按鈕 0

ZHENGZHOU - "Opening my computer is like entering the door of my classroom," said Zhang Xiuli, a 76-year-old retired teacher from Zhengzhou, Henan province.

Granny QQ dishes the advice online

Zhang Xiuli, a 76-year-old retired teacher from Zhengzhou, Henan province, attends to problems of adolescents and their parents through her 18 different QQ accounts.?[Photo / China Daily]

Through her 18 accounts on Tencent QQ, a popular Internet chatting tool in China, Zhang has an astonishing 130,000 net pals, mostly adolescents and their parents seeking her advice.

Every night she spends at least two hours online dealing with problems such as "puppy love", a parent's marriage crisis and difficulties with campus life.

Years of such efforts have earned her the nickname "Granny QQ".

"I can't really respond to all the questions. There are simply too many," said Zhang, who received training in psychology and was certified as a senior psychological counselor at 72.

She volunteers as a counselor at a local community service office during the day, while at night she can be found online.

She first learned to use QQ in 2004 when she was running a small training class at home. She found many of her students would play computer games in nearby Net bars instead of returning home after class.

Having no idea about the Internet, she decided to learn more to better communicate with the children and "teach them the way they liked". She spent 10 days and 100 yuan ($16) in a print shop learning how to type and use QQ.

"I could only type one or two words in a minute," Zhang recalled and laughed.

"She is always interested in new things," said Feng Yanxia, Zhang's daughter. She bought Zhang a computer in 2005 to kill time, but instead it became a useful tool for Zhang to help others.

She would ask Feng, also a teacher, to answer questions she wasn't sure about.

"Some parents would even take their children to Zhengzhou to talk with her face to face," Feng said.

Trust and patience are important for communication between her and the children. A mother once sought her help and said her daughter in middle school "fell in love" with her teacher and even disturbed his family.

Zhang read through the girl's 126 blogs about her feelings for the teacher and made careful comments on each. She chatted with the girl on QQ and advised her mother how to deal with the problem.

"She was just too young and didn't know how to cope with such problems," Zhang said. Finally her efforts paid off and the girl, whose life returned to normal, was later admitted to a university.

Another time, Zhang mailed 1,000 yuan to an "impoverished good student" she had never met in real life as his scholarship.

For 12-year-old Li Pengfei, Zhang seemed more like a mother.

"She is very strict, but doesn't give me any pressure before examinations," said Li, who was paralyzed and confined to a wheelchair after an accident in 2007.

Zhang helped Li catch up with his lessons and advised his parents how to comfort and communicate with him after he was refused by several schools - and he was later accepted by a prominent middle school this summer after he completed five years of lessons in three years.

According to Zhang, the thorniest problems are those about a parent's marriage crisis.

"There's really little I can do except comfort them," she said.

According to Ma Huiqin, head of Zhang's community service office, many local residents, including Ma, who has a 19-year-old son, go to Zhang for suggestions on children's problems.

"She's doing something meaningful," said Ma, who was moved by Zhang's decision to dedicate her time and energy for troubled children or parents.

Zhang just smiled, waving an old fan.

"I enjoy it. I just don't like idling about," she said.

主站蜘蛛池模板: 阿巴嘎旗| 侯马市| 石渠县| 新田县| 彰化市| 兰坪| 沙坪坝区| 项城市| 孟州市| 磴口县| 墨玉县| 连城县| 江达县| 二连浩特市| 巴里| 武义县| 贵州省| 务川| 响水县| 靖远县| 高青县| 杨浦区| 承德县| 资中县| 泰宁县| 双柏县| 沁阳市| 玉门市| 民权县| 彭州市| 鸡泽县| 定陶县| 突泉县| 讷河市| 黑山县| 石城县| 二连浩特市| 哈巴河县| 获嘉县| 阿拉善左旗| 长春市| 九台市| 宣城市| 绵竹市| 富宁县| 双城市| 全椒县| 盈江县| 垫江县| 盐边县| 武义县| 交城县| 神池县| 华阴市| 江安县| 手机| 遂川县| 开平市| 尚志市| 襄樊市| 鄯善县| 绥芬河市| 武山县| 中阳县| 镇安县| 民乐县| 大厂| 油尖旺区| 延边| 恩平市| 洪泽县| 花莲县| 丽水市| 电白县| 神池县| 钟祥市| 岳普湖县| 镇沅| 平山县| 芜湖市| 凉城县| 通渭县|