電影教你如何養(yǎng)孩子（組圖）

1. 電影《歡樂滿人間》（Mary Poppins）

It is 50 years since Mary Poppins appeared on cinema screens. The film presented a very particular view of middle-class family life, but have movies influenced how people think about parenting?

Mary Poppins taught parents many things. Bedrooms are better tidied, every chore has its fun side and an organised day is a happy day. Poppins's strict-but-saccharine manner brought the unruly Jane and Michael Banks under control - she succeeded where their parents and numerous lesser nannies could not.

Though decades old, Poppins's techniques are still lauded by parents.

Childcare blogger Kenney Myers describes her as "the gold standard", while parenting expert Michael Grose says there are some key parenting lessons to learn from Poppins.

The relationship between parents and children, or nannies and children, is one often explored in films. It can result in a strange osmosis for viewers.

"The things we can learn from Mary Poppins is how important boundaries are, and the role that they play in raising children," says Bernie Wooder, a psychoanalyst who uses "film therapy" as part of his treatment technique.

"When she comes along she brings organisation and it appears to look like magic because everything starts to go right. It's an effective lesson."

電影《歡樂滿人間》（Mary Poppins）已問世50年。這部電影以一個獨特視角向人們展示了中等家庭的生活，但電影真的對養(yǎng)育孩子有影響嗎？

《歡樂滿人間》告訴父母很多道理。房間最好收拾整潔，家務(wù)活也可以很快樂，有計劃能過好每一天。

任性的簡和邁克爾?班克斯在軟硬兼施的氛圍中成長并最終獲得成功，而那些在父母或保姆庇佑下的人則不會。

盡管已過去數(shù)十年，瑪麗阿姨（Poppins）的管理方法也為父母所稱贊。

育兒博主肯尼?邁爾斯（Kenney Myers）將她描述為“金本位”，而且育兒專家邁克爾?格羅斯稱可以從瑪麗阿姨身上學(xué)到很多育兒經(jīng)驗。

電影的主題經(jīng)常圍繞父母與孩子、保姆與孩子的關(guān)系。對觀眾來說這會有潛移默化的作用。

精神分析學(xué)家伯尼?伍德（Bernie Wooder）把“電影療法”作為其治療技術(shù)的一部分，他提到：“我們可以從瑪麗?波平斯（Mary Poppins）身上學(xué)到父母與孩子間界限的重要性，而且它們在撫養(yǎng)孩子過程中所扮演著重要角色。”

“當(dāng)她出現(xiàn)時，一切都變得秩序井然，魔法一般所有事情都很順利。這是一堂有效課程?！?/p>